The enduring popularity of the STFN names may have something to do with the fact that the ST phoneme is the herald of all things steadfast, strong, stable, stark, stony, strict, stubborn and stoic. And even though these names are colored by the negative letter N (no, not, nincompoop, nothing, nyet, and never), they lose much of their pessimism thanks to the freeing soundsof the festive letter F or PH sound: fun, fancy, fanny, fawn, fantasy, friend, fine, and fond. Because the ST combination has a predominantly masculine flavor, all female STFN names end in the high-pitched tones of the I, Y or IE, whichgives them the feminine resonance found in the words: sunny, cozy, fairy, happy, zany and honey. STFNs are strong, funny, smart and warm, and bring a sense of balance to their environments. They can always be counted on to make an impact on the lives of those they touch.
With this wealth of self-assurance, STFNs believe that it’s better doing something and regretting it, than not doing something and regretting it. This is why you’ll never hear an STFN say, “if only I had…” and why many STFNs are willing to live out their dreams in unconventional ways. And if the STFNs’ avant-garde life choices generate criticism, it’s certainly not going to put a damper on their behavior… after all; no one has ever put up a statue to a critic.
Always ready with a joke, a shoulder to cry on, or sound advice when it's needed, people are irresistibly drawn to the STFN’s realm. But all this emotional energy can take its toll (especially on someone whose strengths don’t include stamina) and STFNs will need regular episodes of downtime to recharge their social batteries.
If STFNs have reputations for being short-cut artists you won’t find them objecting to the characterization: STFNs hate doing anything the hard way if they suspect there might be a more efficient way. They’re the kinds of people who justify not making the bed because they’re just going to mess it up later in the evening. Even when they were in school, STFNs would do just enough to get by, which everyone agrees is a shame, considering their high potential.
STFNs are undoubtedly family types and, while they may not be the most romantic people on the planet, understand the value of commitment and the inevitable compromises that come with it. But because STFNs aren’t likely to turn down any social invitations, prospective mates must be able to hack it with someone who’s not going to abide by the family’s appointment book. The ideal mates for the energetic STFN s are people with their own busy schedules and autonomous social domains.
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