that begin with the idealistically intellectual letter I almost always denote an individual with a strong sense of self-worth and high intelligence, and its union with the letter L -- the symbol for life, love, liberty, lust and learning – suggests a feminine creature with an uncommon facility for philosophical introspection. It should be noted however, that people with names like Ilene, Ilona and Ilana -- which incorporate the negative letter N (no, not, never, nix, nada, nyet, nein, nothing) -- often have to cope with occasional mood swings and a propensity for pessimism.
Like all people with high intellectual and emotional intelligences, ILs possess a quiet strength that grows more apparent as you get to know them better. And while they are hardly ever outspoken about their opinions, you always get the feeling that they have a lot to say. Even in an all-out debate, ILs are more likely to stand on the sidelines with an enigmatic smile than they are to show-off their considerable verbal skills.
ILs are also more likely to stand up for others than they are for themselves, and if you want to test this theory, just try meddling with one of their loved ones. This is about the only time you’ll experience the IL’s darker aspects and, even though they don’t have a temper worse than anyone else, once they’ve built up a head of steam it can be virtually impossible to derail them. It’s not easy to find people with this capable combination of protectiveness and obduracy, so it’s not surprising that ILs have few problems with finding friends.
ILs – like most people whose names begin with an I – are drawn to the medical profession. But those that choose not to pursue the sciences, manage to blossom in jobs that allow them to operate at their own pace. This is why they so often gravitate toward small business enterprises in which they’ll sacrifice income for creative freedom. Teamwork presents no problems for the empathic ILs, but overall, they prefer solo ventures in which they can take credit for their own efforts.
When it comes to family life, ILs prove enthusiastic and dedicated mates who place great importance on establishing a friendship with their spouse. They are fastidious about keeping the channels of communication well maintained, and IL marriages are characterized by the teamwork with which they build their nests. Children are welcome additions to the IL’s rich emotional network and can expect intelligent discipline and unconditional love.
