When a name begins with the triumphant and trumpeting letter T, it suggests an individual with a clear vision of the future and the self-confidence to make it happen. And when you consider that the FNY phoneme forms the basis for the words funny, fanny, friendly, funky, affinity, fancy, and fantasy, it’s easy to see why these names suggest people with enough infectious oomph to animate Al Gore.
The TFNY approaches life with a disarming demeanor that puts people at ease. You’ll definitely want one of them around if you have a tense social situation on your hands and need someone to throw some light on it. But selling oneself as a gregarious extrovert sometimes takes more emotional energy that one can muster, and -- even though they fancy themselves the life of the party -- the TFNYs’ downtimes are marked by petty squabbles and bouts of antagonism.
Nervous about taking your girlfriend to meet your parents? If she's a TFNY, you won't have to sweat it: she'll have them under her spell in five minutes. And on those rare occasions where her charm fails to impress, the TFNY's streamlined personality allows her to slipstream any negative feelings directed her way. This tendency to sidestep the nitty-gritty in relationships may explain why it can be so difficult to fully connect with an elusive TFNY, who often flits though life in a series of unsubstantial relationships.
Careers for TFNY personalities tend to revolve around jobs dealing with the public. Because she is the master of the instant connection, she is ideal for sales, marketing, or any job involving animals. These are creative women as well, and their affinity for the limelight often leads them into the arts as singers, designers, musicians, dancers and songwriters. But whether she’s a top-notch performer or a waitress at the local bar and grill, the TFNY can be quite churlish when she feels that she’s being ignored. Friends and loved ones quickly learn to sidestep these little squalls and generally conclude they are a small price to pay for the affection she bestows when in her better moods.
Marriage can be a dicey proposition for the uncompromising TFNY, andfireworks are bound to ensue if her mate fails to meet her exacting standards. It’s not that she isn’t capable of feeling genuine love for her partner, but she will expect him to be dependable and financially sound. He who would marry this gregarious woman must learn to suspend his judgment and trust in his partner’s desire -- if not always the facility – for complete intimacy. Only then can both reap the rewards of a union that will most likely last forever.
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